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Do you ever find yourself teetering on the edge, trying to juggle your emotions, relationships, and sense of self? Have you ever wondered what it’s like to navigate life with borderline personality disorder (BPD), a condition impacting countless individuals worldwide? If these questions resonate with you, consider tuning in to The Plus One podcast, where I candidly share my journey of coping with BPD since 2017. Through this podcast, I delve into topics ranging from relationships to sobriety to therapy, offering an unfiltered look into my experiences. At the same time, I am not a therapist or licensed professional; I’m a fellow human seeking connection with those facing similar hurdles. The Plus One podcast serves as a raw and authentic discussion on mental health, shedding light on the realities of living and loving with BPD. Join me as we explore the peaks and valleys of this intricate and often misconstrued disorder. Remember, you’re not alone in this journey—you are the plus one.
Episodes

Tuesday Oct 17, 2023
Break Time!
Tuesday Oct 17, 2023
Tuesday Oct 17, 2023
We took a couple of weeks off to wrap up the summer… Turned 41, and keep looking for love!
Listen in while we catch up and stay tuned for next week, where we do it all again.
Yes, this description is very vague and general; your girl is tired from working at the most punk rock bar in Spokane. Press play!
Follow everything the Plus One podcast does, and big big shout out to Spokast! for always putting up with our shit!

Wednesday Sep 27, 2023
Dating Is Hard
Wednesday Sep 27, 2023
Wednesday Sep 27, 2023
Sometimes, I feel like I’m living in a simulation. Is this even real? How can dating be so incredibly lackluster when so many people are in the same situation? I have to believe that the universe is sending me my perfect person and that the ones sent to me now are only reminders that I deserve better. Dating is hard!

Wednesday Sep 20, 2023
Oh my God!
Wednesday Sep 20, 2023
Wednesday Sep 20, 2023
I did an episode with Jaucia! Tune in for a little girl talk! I’m loving this girlfriend series, we really are the people we involve in our lives. With borderline personality disorder, you have to be very methodical about your friendships and relationships. These are mine, and I am grateful!
Follow everything the Plus One podcast does, and shout out to our podcast daddy, Spokast!, for putting up with all our wild ways!

Tuesday Sep 12, 2023
I’m Fine.
Tuesday Sep 12, 2023
Tuesday Sep 12, 2023
Catching up after my favorite person moved away for a crunchy life in Oregon, I brought my good friend Kodi! We talk about our triggers and what helps us navigate borderline personality disorder. We have started going to the gym together, and let me tell you, it’s been great for my mental health! Physical health and mental health are closely related. To take care of one is to take care of the other. If you see me around town randomly crying, don’t mind me; I miss my favorite person.
Who knows what love is? Sometimes, it’s twin flames, And you finish each other sentences. Sometimes, you’re living in a dream world and loving someone without expectation of reciprocation. I’m just trying to love what I so freely give to others. Despite our trauma, love is what gives us hope.
Thank you for tuning in to The Plus One Podcast and sharing this podcast with anyone who might need to hear it!

Tuesday Aug 29, 2023
Never Get Too Comfortable
Tuesday Aug 29, 2023
Tuesday Aug 29, 2023
Bonus Episode
Never get too comfortable.
Love Always,
The Universe

Tuesday Aug 29, 2023
The Epiphany Episode
Tuesday Aug 29, 2023
Tuesday Aug 29, 2023
As a person who struggles with BPD, it’s hard for me to stick to a topic. Unless of course, it is the topic of BPD. Thankfully everything that happens in my life is a direct result of that because my BPD is my plus one. I’ve gone so deep into my healing that I question the motives behind every decision I make, whether conscious or subconscious. Not every day is a good day, but I am proud to say that the bad days come few and far between. It’s a choice. I’ve always been a person searching for love. And then I realized….I am love. I have all the love I need. I am full. And none of those things require the presence of another human being. Self love is a journey and it’s hard and humbling as fuck. And it’s not over. This is just a real time ear hustle for you to feel a little less alone in this unpredictable place. And if you see something that makes you uncomfortable, speak up. Use your voice to speak and your back bone to stand on it. Complacency breeds corruption. And comply to the norm is something I’ll never do. Take care of your people. Follow everything the plus one does on all socials and me on everything. Shout out to our podcast daddy for putting up with us and all the crazy ways we try to change the world for the better. See you next Tuesday!

Thursday Aug 10, 2023
To Date Or Not To Date?
Thursday Aug 10, 2023
Thursday Aug 10, 2023
If you think you have a crush on me, it’ll pass. What does a girl with BPD look for in a relationship? Tune in and find out!
Follow everything The Plus One does, and shout out to our podcast daddy, Spokast! Be nice out there; dating in 2023 is hard!

Tuesday Aug 01, 2023
Welcome Home
Tuesday Aug 01, 2023
Tuesday Aug 01, 2023
After 127 days of pure agony, my kids have returned home to me.
Remember that parenting with BPD requires ongoing effort and self-reflection. Don't hesitate to ask for help when needed, and remember that it's okay to make mistakes – being open to learning from them is essential. Your dedication to growth and well-being will positively influence your ability to be a nurturing and loving parent.
If you know anyone with BPD or if you have BPD, I hope this podcast brings you clarity and inclusion. You are not alone. Follow everything the plus one podcast does and shout out to Spokast!

Monday Jul 31, 2023
Freestyle Thoughts
Monday Jul 31, 2023
Monday Jul 31, 2023
I’ve gotten much better at descriptions, but to be honest, there’s a lot going on. This is a short episode where I’m just working some shit out. Come work some shit out with me. You never know what someone is going through, be nice.

Tuesday Jul 11, 2023
Unmasking the Symptoms
Tuesday Jul 11, 2023
Tuesday Jul 11, 2023
In this episode, we focus on a real time unraveling of symptoms of ADHD and BPD mania. We explore common behavioral patterns, emotional dysregulation, impulsivity, distractibility, and hyperactivity. Through my personal stories we discuss the challenges faced by individuals living with these conditions, highlighting the impact on daily life, relationships, and overall well-being.
The Plus One Podcast is here to educate, inspire, and uplift individuals affected by ADHD and BPD mania. By fostering a sense of community, promoting understanding, and providing practical tools, we hope to empower our listeners to embrace their challenges and lead fulfilling lives. Remember, you are not alone on this journey - we are in this together.
Follow us on all socials and a big shout out to Spokast, our podcast daddy! Go out of your way to be kind to someone today, it’s worth it and you could save someone’s life!